Great looking women are a mystery to a lot of men. Maybe to all men.
Don't get me wrong--I can't claim that I have women all figured out by any means. Any man who tells you he has is full of it. But what I can do is help bust some myths about great looking women that may have been holding you back from social success:
(Myth # 1) Great looking women are all bitches. Come on, now. This is the kind of thing that guys say when they have been turned down by someone. Maybe you just weren't worth talking to.
(Myth # 2) Great looking women love compliments. This may be partially true, but don't make the mistake in thinking that the way to impress a woman is to just give her compliment after compliment. Not only is this boring, but it makes you look like a kiss-up. There is not some magic number of compliments that will eventually win her over. Good grief.
(Myth #3) Great looking women only date great looking men (unless they are rich and/or famous). This may be the biggest myth of them all. It may have been true in high school. Not anymore. Some women, believe it or not, actually look at more than just looks, status, and wealth when they are looking for someone to be with. Don't ever rule a woman out just because you think she may be out of your league. Give her a little more credit than that.
(Myth #4) Great looking women are all uptight. Some guys feel like they can't joke or kid with a great looking woman for fear that she will be offended and not bless him with her presence anymore. I actually think the reverse is true--many of these women have been kissed up to a million times starting at the age of about ten years old. A guy with the confidence to kid or joke with her is a refreshing change. Just don't take it too far and act like a jerk.
So, stop believing these myths, guys. Be real. Be comfortable. Think of strangers you meet like they are your best friend. The results could amaze you.
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