Men often make the mistake of thinking that boldness of any kind is good.
I don't know where we got the idea that extreme boldness is always a good idea, but it was probably from other men. If you want to get along well with women, however, this kind of thinking is most likely the wrong move. Here are some thoughts:
(1) Most women won't like it if you get too casual too soon. Save your "hey baby" until she actually is your baby. Show some respect. Good grief.
(2) Don't ask a woman if she is single within the first few minutes of meeting her. This shows without a doubt that you are interested in her strictly for her looks. Classy women are not going to respond well to this approach.
(3) Out of control boldness could wind up making a woman uncomfortable. Sometimes boldness can be fun and show confidence. Other times it can just make you look like a jerk. Learn to know when the time is right for it.
(4) Too much boldness can set you up to be a clown. If you are having to try too hard to impress someone, you are establishing a dangerous precedent. You don't want to be expected to be entertaining 24/7.
If you are the outgoing type, there is nothing wrong with being bold with women every now and then. Many of them like it. Just use some sense. Mingle like a gentleman.
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