Welcome to my new site: Mingling 101: How to Mingle With Success and Class.
For my first blog entry, I am going to talk about my inspiration for creating this site.
A few years ago a friend of mine was going through a divorce. This friend had met his former wife online, and his social skills were terrible. He actually even had trouble talking to strangers who were men, much less women. He would look straight down at the ground when he was in public, uncomfortable even making eye contact with people. Now, this is a quality, educated guy with good character that I am talking about, but he just could not find any comfort whatsoever in social situations of any kind. So, at his request, I decided to develop a plan to help him improve his social skills so that he could learn to be comfortable in social situations of all kinds, with an emphasis on dating.
Now, I am not claiming to be some naturally gifted social genius. Far from it. I would describe my social skills when we began the study as average to slightly above average. My gift, however, is problem solving. I was sure that there were secrets out there to having great social skills, so I set out to discover them. I was so happy with the results of my study and his resulting improvement, that I decided to make a website devoted to helping others improve their social skills in a similar way.
The cool thing about social skills is that you don't have to be great at them to be successful. I call myself the Mingle Master, but in reality being a master does not really have to be your goal. All you really have to do is not be bad! That is an awesome goal to be able to have. This brings me to the main message of this site:
If you can learn to improve your social (mingling) skills from below average to slightly above average, the results can be tremendous.
Wow. Now that is my kind of goal. It's reachable. It's doable for just about anyone. You don't have to stress out about having to learn how to become a social wizard. All you have to do is learn how to not be bad and your social ability will take off!
The point of this site is not to teach you how to get women into bed, trick someone into liking you, etc. There are plenty of sites that try to do that. This site is more for the person who wants to learn how to have good social skills, but be able to use them in a civilized way. So no tricks, acting, or manipullating here.
Just think of the number of people who's lives would be improved tremendously if they could only master the art of social skills. You may be one of them. And don't worry, ladies--yes, the site is called How to Mingle Like a Gentleman, but many of the ideas I will be discussing will work well for women too.
So come join me as I share the secrets of having comfort in every social situation imaginable. You'll be glad you did. This is going to be good.
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